Often, women in tough relationships, or who've escaped tough relationships, are simply plodding through their days, pretending to be happy.
Many times they can’t even picture what life could look like to LIVE JOYFULLY. They’re ashamed or embarrassed of who they’ve become and how far their life has slipped. They’ve given up hope of an amazing life.
Here's a tiny sample of the difficult stories I got back:
🚨 Reality Check 🚨: NONE of these strategies work because past stories get stuck in your head and dictate your current story. They hide there until they’re triggered and come back to haunt you.
Those stories control you and how you operate in the world. It’s tough to truly “move on” until you’ve excavated those stories to gain power over them.
Years ago, I unwittingly married a narcissist - a sociopath. After ten soul-crushing years of marriage, he vowed to ruin me, take the house, take the kids. Trash my reputation.
I tried "bucking up" because I could handle it. I tried getting out (4 times!). I tried putting the past behind me. None of that worked.
Writing caused me to become calmer, my brain released its stressed-out fog, I explored how in the world I ended up in an abusive situation…and I became braver about the next steps I needed to take.
Imagine that by simply WRITING about your tough stories you become more authentic and who you really were meant to be!
Imagine it allowing you to stop feeling foolish for your past mistakes and actually boosting your self esteem and self worth!
That’s why I created...
Whether you've already moved on and put the past behind you, building a new life for yourself [way to go!], or you're still struggling and wondering, "How in the world did I get here?"...
...writing out your tough life stories, in a specific way, leaves you feeling confident and truly authentic. It's the missing factor in our lives.
Writing your tough stories can:
Conventional wisdom says to ignore the tough things, to just get over it!
Even though most people underestimate the need to EMBRACE their tough stories, there are some who dive right in.
These wise souls gain HUGE insights into themselves and their past, while others who don't embrace their stories continue to struggle internally.
These wise souls find out they're NOT AT FAULT for their past, no matter what they've told themselves. They've found the freedom that telling their life stories brings.
They've ignored the conventional wisdom that says "forget it and just move on."
The little secret...writing can help you heal and become whole again.
It's actually THRILLING to wield control over your past as you control the words that make up your stories.
The key ingredient to all of this is writing your life stories.
And with your permission, that's what I'd love to show you inside of Lifestory Laboratory...
In this module, you’ll discover the beautiful journey you’re about to embark on, understand why digging into the past is one of the best things you can do for yourself, and begin finding your life theme...which may surprise you.
In this module, you’ll get started collecting stories and begin writing the foundational words that you’ll use to build stories. You’ll start discovering the beautiful, messy words that are inside of you.
In this module you’ll gain experience freewriting, understand what to do when you don’t remember your stories, and continue to build the foundational words your stories will come from.
In this module we’re going to start shaping your stories with amazing insights. We're taking that raw story and adding details that will make it more attractive. This is where you add in sensory details and emotions.
In this module, you’ll learn how to use your stories to make your future self wiser and more resilient by digging out the lessons learned, get through the tough stuff by forgiving yourself and others, as well as build a more detailed and enticing story.
Enhancing your stories is all about crafting the story into a readable, beautiful collection of scenes that read like a novel. It’s making them presentable to the public (if you wish to share; you don’t have to). We’re now starting to pull all the ugly freewrites into a cohesive narrative that makes sense.
Now that you know the basics of editing, what are other ways to enhance your stories to make them into beautiful pieces of art? Here you’ll learn advanced story techniques.
Now that you know you can create beautiful stories out of your past, it’s time to start thinking about elevating them. This means to elevate their visibility in the world, elevate them in usefulness and in service to other people by sharing your wisdom.
Let’s take that elevation to a new level. It’s time to start crafting publishable snippets and submitting your stories to get them out into the world. Bravo for getting this far!
You made it! I’m so proud of you! The adventure of capturing your life stories is life-changing. This isn’t the end, though. Let’s talk about next steps.
We keep your bonus goodies in this vault...including some things that we've never revealed before. Including:
Lifestory Laboratory - $1,997 Value
When you add it all up, that’s a value of $2,344
3 Monthly Payments of
1 Single Payment of
I am confident that writing out your tough life stories with Lifestory Laboratory can change your life for the better.
Therefore, I stand behind Lifestory Laboratory with a 30-day money back guarantee.
However, you must be willing to put in the work required to see results.
In the 30 days from when you purchase the course, dive into the materials and give it your best shot.
Dig into the bonus life storytelling resources.
Ask questions as they come up. Be open to the experience. Invest your time in the course as you have invested your money.
If in 30 days you have truly made your best effort in getting the most out of Lifestory Laboratory and find that you are not getting benefit from this course, contact me for a refund. Be prepared to show proof of your work in the course. No time-wasters, please.
"This made me stronger and wiser. Each lesson is packed with crucial information! Thankfully, I am now armed with new insight. I have decided to continue healing. This information and the lessons I've learned will help me on my healing journey. Thank you!"
Questions our top students ask
before enrolling in Lifestory Laboratory
I understand your fear. I had the same fear, but this isn't necessarily for publication - it's for your own healing. I'll teach you how to write well (and in an exciting, messy way), and how to edit....or you can get an editor if you intend to publish at a later date. It's your choice!
Remember that everyone in our Slack community is there for a similar reason: they all have lived through and are now trying to process tough stuff in their lives. Many have likely been in your shoes. They are conquering their personal, painful stories, too! This community provides a safe space for you to share your story and give you compassionate and helpful feedback. With that being said, you do not have to share your stories at all to benefit from this course. This course (and the Slack community) will help you with the mechanics, the emotions, the psychology, and the essentials to keep you moving forward whether you choose to share your stories inside or not.
Absolutely not. It is essential to take a thoughtful look at even the most painful parts of life in order to learn about ourselves and to process the pain so we can let it go.
That's why I include the scientific studies behind it...so you understand exactly why this is beneficial!
You can. But writing your stories will add a new dimension to your processing of what has happened to you, and your understanding of yourself. Don’t you want to give yourself the best chance of regaining your sense of self and your confidence?
Good question. Everyone gets stuck sometime. :) Not to worry! The Slack community will be a great sounding board for you to bounce ideas off of, and you can always contact us inside of Slack with course-related questions. This community is created to keep you moving forward, so be sure to let us know when you get stuck.
As soon as you purchase, you get immediate access to the first module. Which is great because it is front-loaded with all kinds of goodies, like the science behind writing tough stories, resources, course guide, your first exercise, and more!
After that, we will all begin Module 2 together as a cohort to keep folks in a semi-cohesive group. Each Monday a new module will be released.
If you're not done with the previous week, no worries. We have built-in catch-up weeks, pause a week for Thanksgiving and Christmas, and pick back up. We anticipate being done by the end of January.
I know this is an amazing step for you. This is why I have the Lifestory Laboratory “Life Is Good” Guarantee. I believe this program can be transformative if you commit to giving it your time and attention. If you do this and, after 30 days, you have truly made your best effort in getting the most out of Lifestory Laboratory and find that you are not getting benefit from this course, contact me for a refund.
You bet! Here’s what you’re getting when you enroll today:
This will depend on how deep you'd like to go with your writing. You'll find some great insights into yourself and your past within the first couple of weeks. Beyond that, the more you write, the more you'll heal.
First, you always have the "Life is Good" guarantee. Second, writing helps everyone. You'll find so much more clarity in writing about your past, or even your present! If you put in the work, you're going to get results.
Most other programs are writing courses that focus on simply the writing. This program is a comprehensive life storytelling program + amazing, supportive community of people who are becoming more resilient each week. We focus not only on the writing, but on healing, resilience, and building a joy-filled life. We learn and understand the science behind resilience and writing, so we know WHY writing helps - even if you're not a good writer and even if you never show your writing to anyone.
I get it. Sometimes when these things open up, timing isn't perfect. That's OK! You have permanent access to the course. You can start, stop, and start again any time you want. It's really go-at-your-own pace, but with a community of encouragers to cheer you on. We'll always be in the Slack group at whatever point you hop in.
This program is a good fit for people who've been in some tough circumstances. It's particularly excellent for women who've been in toxic relationships in the past, or are currently in one. If you've ever wished you were emotionally stronger, braver, and so much more able to be authentically you and genuinely happy....this is the course for you! If you don't even believe you can be genuinely happy...this is the course for you!
"I have answers. I have hope. I have solutions to keep on healing. Stacy, you are such a loving, caring person to put this together. The information is priceless! You are helping me to heal. My gut has turned from fear to courage. I stand up straighter. This has empowered me beyond my expectations."
Lifestory Laboratory - $1,997 Value
When you add it all up, that’s a value of $2,344
3 Monthly Payments of
1 Single Monthly Payment of